Beyond Me Time and My Space, Let Us Cherish Our Third Space
Yong Chuan Tan on Unsplash Never, never marry, my friend. Here’s my advice to you: don’t marry until you can tell yourself that you’ve done all you could, and until you’ve stopped loving the woman you’ve chosen, until you see her clearly, otherwise you’ll be cruelly and irremediably mistaken. Words uttered by a character in Leo Tolstoy’s famous novel War and Peace. Maybe Tolstoy was talking around the untapped human potential which gets lost between basic needs as home and work i.e. food and sex. When I am in my zone my senses climb up to a higher band. Every morning I smell Desi ghee parathas when I am about to close my 10-kilometre cycling loop. This is all but human. We need the space of our comforts. A space to wake up our senses. Modern lifestyle has boxed our sense of space between work and home. This is the reason everyone needs a third space-a place between home and work. A third space to unwind the mental muscles and become a social animal. For somebody the...